Support

Help Centre

Answers to the most common questions about Connect.

Getting started

How do I create an account?

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Click "Create profile" on the homepage and follow the 3-step registration. You'll need to verify your email address before your account is activated.

Is Connect only for South Africans?

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Connect is built for the South African Muslim community but is open to Muslims from anywhere. All prices are in South African Rand (ZAR).

How do I complete my profile?

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Go to Dashboard → My Profile. A completion bar shows how complete your profile is. Completing more fields improves your match accuracy and visibility.

Can I use Connect for free?

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Yes — the Standard plan is free and lets you browse up to 20 profiles. To send messages and access full features, you'll need to upgrade to Premium.

Matching

How does matching work?

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Connect calculates compatibility scores across up to 9 dimensions including religious level, interests, family values, location, education and lifestyle. Premium members see all 9 dimensions.

Can I control what dimensions are used for matching?

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Yes — go to Dashboard → Browse → Match preferences to toggle which dimensions matter to you.

Why do some profiles appear blurred?

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Some members choose to blur their photo for Standard (free) members. Premium members always see photos clearly. You can enable this for your own photo in Profile → Photo settings.

Messaging

How do I send a first message?

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Browse to a profile and click "Send introduction". You'll answer 3 structured questions before your message is sent. This ensures thoughtful, respectful first contact.

Why can't I reply to messages?

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Messaging requires a Premium subscription. Standard members can receive introductions but cannot reply. Upgrade from Dashboard → Upgrade.

Can I share my phone number in messages?

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No — Connect automatically filters messages containing phone numbers, email addresses and social media handles. This protects all members and keeps communication on the platform.

What is a meeting request?

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Once a conversation is progressing well, Premium members can send a formal meeting request (in-person, video or phone call). The other person can accept or decline with a reason.

Wali system

What is a wali?

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A wali is an Islamic guardian — typically a father, brother or male relative — who oversees the marriage process. Connect's wali system lets you link a wali to your account so they can monitor your activity.

How do I invite my wali?

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Go to Dashboard → Wali settings and enter your wali's email address. They'll receive an invitation to create a wali account and link to yours.

What can my wali see?

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You control exactly what your wali can access — messages, contact requests, matches and the ability to block users. Adjust permissions in Dashboard → Wali settings.

Does my wali need to pay?

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The Family plan covers both a seeker and their wali under one subscription at R249/month. Alternatively walis can have a free account.

Verification

What is the verified badge?

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Premium+ members can upload a South African ID or passport to get a verified badge on their profile. This shows other members that your identity has been confirmed by the Connect team.

How long does verification take?

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We aim to review verification submissions within 1–2 business days.

Is my ID document safe?

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Yes — ID documents are stored in a private, encrypted storage bucket and are only accessible to the Connect admin team. They are never shown to other members.

Account & billing

How do I cancel my subscription?

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Go to Dashboard → Settings → Subscription and click "Cancel subscription". Your Premium access continues until the end of the current billing period.

How do I delete my account?

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Go to Dashboard → Settings → Account and click "Delete account". This permanently removes your profile and all data within 30 days.

What payment methods are accepted?

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Connect uses PayFast which accepts credit/debit cards, EFT, instant EFT and SnapScan. All payments are processed in ZAR.

Still need help?

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Email us at privacy@connect-nikah.co.za